Normally, people say that love fades after some time, like the love and care that was shown during the initial stages would be more compared to later part.Y is it so? did any one research on that.?
In my point of view "show the love & care to the person you are close BUT NEVER EXPECT the same from them" bcoz they may be of different nature.
Expectation always leads to a rupture in the relation. so never expect anything from anyone, else you might get depressed.
Normally most of the parents say that "Love marriage leads to divorce" secondly the latest trend in today's world is " The series and episodes of love in a single person's life ". Y?
The answer is same
During the initial stages both show their positive character but as the time progress you will be able to view some of the negative character of the person. This is really an important stage in the relationship where both have to be equally flexible and try to understand that this is the originality of the person. I am sure, this would have happened at least once in a relationship and the people who are really flexible will continue the relationship, while others end in a "break-up".
My main objective of writing this is to understand if my thoughts are right or wrong.
So please leave your comment and also classify yourselves in which stage you are in
1. Initial stage - Forecast is that you have to be more flexible and "Never expect anything from your partner".
2. Problematic stage - Good that you have come to this stage. "All the best"
3. Jolly stage - Congrats, Everything is done and in your case my blog title will suit "Love will never fade in your relationship"
meet you all soon.. take care..
In my point of view "show the love & care to the person you are close BUT NEVER EXPECT the same from them" bcoz they may be of different nature.
Expectation always leads to a rupture in the relation. so never expect anything from anyone, else you might get depressed.
Normally most of the parents say that "Love marriage leads to divorce" secondly the latest trend in today's world is " The series and episodes of love in a single person's life ". Y?
The answer is same
During the initial stages both show their positive character but as the time progress you will be able to view some of the negative character of the person. This is really an important stage in the relationship where both have to be equally flexible and try to understand that this is the originality of the person. I am sure, this would have happened at least once in a relationship and the people who are really flexible will continue the relationship, while others end in a "break-up".
My main objective of writing this is to understand if my thoughts are right or wrong.
So please leave your comment and also classify yourselves in which stage you are in
1. Initial stage - Forecast is that you have to be more flexible and "Never expect anything from your partner".
2. Problematic stage - Good that you have come to this stage. "All the best"
3. Jolly stage - Congrats, Everything is done and in your case my blog title will suit "Love will never fade in your relationship"
meet you all soon.. take care..
hey nice thoughts you have described different stages in a relationship...
ReplyDeleteI like the fact "BUT NEVER EXPECT".
ReplyDeleteThis is 100% true. The more we expect,the more we get hurt.
Love Without any Expectation. (Like me) :P
Nicely written..May be your experience made you to write so well :-)
ReplyDelete'NEVER EXPECT' is the best attitude..even after marriage (bcoz they may be of different nature..very very true)
I am in stage 3..so cool..u did not tell in which stage you are..2???
@Anitha : 2nd Stage as of now..
ReplyDelete@Teena & Saranya : Thanks 4 the comment
Hey Rozario, good start dude...thanks for choosing this topic ;-)
ReplyDeleteWell, I have never been in love with anyone, but now I see light at the end of the tunnel :-) so hopefully I expect to fall in one of the 3 category you mentioned soon, I need your expert advices :-)
I agree with you that during the initial stages, both show off mostly their positive traits and may be hide/suppress their true character but then I feel it is very difficult to understand a person completely.
I also believe we should develop/express unconditional love without expecting anything in return :-D
Good luck and best wishes to all the lovers!!!