Love never fades but do Love change from one person to another.. Part II

It was August 2008, My friend finally decided to join a course, which was in multimedia and it costed around 80,000 for just 6 months and his parents also said OK. Prelims nearly 2000 fresh graduated appeared for the 35 seats. No doubt my friend cleared prelims and finally he moved from tanjore to the capital of tamilnadu, chennai."


As my friend came to chennai, within 1 week of his arrival I got transfer to my home town "Tanjore".

Friends are the first relationship that we have where ever we go, after joining the college he was there in a gang of 5 friends, 2 girls and 3 boys.Pooja, Rehana, Sandeep, Henry and my Friend.

Henry's is from chennai and he is a son of millionare so he used to come from his home itself

Sandeep and My Friend shared a room in a PG, similarly Pooja and Rehana stayed together in a PG that was indeed 4 Kms away.

In college all the five used to sit on a same desk and used to share about interesting things that happened in their earlier life and sometimes used to crack jokes.
Henry was the jolly and jovial person and they used to tease him. He used to be a full time saraku party, so they used to call him "bothai". Even some times he used to have drinks early morning and come to college and that day he will be not opening his mouth in the class and these four used to tease him a lot.

It is indeed a beautiful picture to recall whenever we think about our school and college life. Friends are indeed a good relationship where God himself appears to us and correct us.

Nearly 1 month passed the bond of friendship became stronger and stronger, as soon as college ends they used to sit at beach and chat upto night 8 or 9 and in most of times "bothai" will be absent. so, four used to be chat and roam. slowly they started to bunk the classes and go to movies.

Here comes the twist, suddenly one day Pooja said clearly to my friend that she is in love. My friend on other end never ever expected this from her. He was considering all the four as friends. He knew that when love comes problem starts and he dont want to face these things. He was clear about these things and like a monk he advised Pooja that "our friends will feel bad if we both are in love".

But pooja was confident about her love, as these people used to sit together and chat, pooja used to stare at my friend continuously. Even my friend was feeling the heat and was not knowing what is happening within him. suddenly after 2 week he also started feeling that he was in love with Pooja and accepted her proposal.


"Love is indeed a beautiful feeling and I was feeling nostalgic"

My friend was clear about one thing that in no situation the relationship should be known to other 3 friends and he said this clearly to pooja.

After going back to PG pooja used to call my friend and without knowing to sandeep my friend used to run to terrace and used to talk whole night. slowly they started speaking all nonsense & censored things hope you will understand the conversation that would had happened between lovers.

Now the age of their relationship became two months, and now both started meeting alone, without the friends presence at restaurant, park and beach. My friend forced his parents and got a new bike since Sandeep was having one and pooja was fond of going ride in bike.

It was November 25 the day still my friend remember. the day on which he got his first kiss from pooja. Indeed boys are also good he dont wanted to have that with him so he gave her back.

"Aporam".. hmmm he did not say anything further about that.

Everything was fine untill one day when pooja started speaking about her caste and the status of their parents. she indeed had love with him but other conscious was reminding her about her parents, caste and status. My friend was shocked.

To be continued.....

" Love never fades but do Love change from one person to another.. Part I "

This week it is really interesting since I had a big argument with one of my friend who is from tanjore about my blog title "Love never fades". But in the end I lost and got stunned by listening to one of his friend's story and I had no words to speak. My friend accept that "Love never fades" but his question was "Does Love change from one person to another" due to some stupid reasons.

So hear goes the story

"He is one of my close friend with whom I have spend my childhood days as well as my teenage. A very close friend who really is good looking and handsome compared to me. Something that is interesting about my friend is that he does the work that he loves and never ever does a work due to compulsion. Even sometimes I adore him since I too wanted to enjoy my life and wish to do things that I would love.

I did my undergraduation as B.Tech in computer science in a very famous college near to tanjore. But on other end my friend who is very much talented did BCA and used to guide me in programming skills. 1st and 2nd year he enjoyed a lot, used to talk with each and every girl and never ever committed with any one girl. all girls used to like him due to his talent in studies, his speech that used to attract and finally his character that is genuine.

It was the 3rd year and he was in his final semester, suddenly he fell sick due to typhoid, some how he wrote his exams, but he got his first arrears in one paper. His parents encouraged him a lot, he wrote the exams in November and he cleared the paper. It was november and already 2007 batch got placed in most of the companies so he decided to search job in 2008. 2008, worst year of his life recession started everywhere although he was strong in his programmatical skills he was somewhat weak in English communication skills.

I was campus placed in one of MNC and I moved to chennai with my parents. Within some months my friend got frustrated by the neighbors and relation since all started speaking about him and his career although his parents were cool that his son will some how shine in his life.

It was August 2008, My friend finally decided to join a course, which was in multimedia and it costed around 80,000 for just 6 months and his parents also said OK. Prelims nearly 2000 fresh graduated appeared for the 35 seats. No doubt my friend cleared prelims and finally he moved from tanjore to the capital of tamilnadu, chennai. Which in turn changed his life."

To be continued....

Friends I really got a positive feedback from you all about my blog thanks a lot for the support.

So poll your votes as your mind says to the options given below
1. "Love never fades" or
2. "Love never fades but it changes from one person to another"

That's it for today meet you all next week, Take care.. bye..

Boys Vs Girls

Today morning as soon as I woke up of my bed, I saw the time it was 5.30am then I saw that its Thursday, and I need to update my blog. So I decided to take an interesting topic today its BOYS Vs GIRLS

I am not going to argue anything, but today I will give some idea about a boy’s nature and mentality as well as a girl’s.

We shall come from the creation time. according to God, Human beings are the masterpiece of his creations.
Boys basically believe that they are the best since most of the people believe that eve is being created from her husband Adam rib. But, that is not the true. Female are the final, most beautiful and most dangerous creation of god. Since they are too good and EXPECT the same from male.

Normally if you analyse the quality of male’s brain and female’s brain. It’s completely different in nature. How??

1.      During the initial stages of evolution you can find that male used to go out in search of food, but that is not the case with female they used to sit at home and think about the past, present and future.

2.      If there is a situation where you are starving for week and if u find an animal which is indeed a good food. The approach of male as well as female to this situation will be completely different.

Male are Predators they don’t see mercy for that animal. But, females are different they see the eyes of the animal, indeed they show mercy and love towards that animal. Point to be noted “Girls like boys who speak with them with eye contact”.

3.      Normally If a female decides, she can make Male easily fall in love and but in turn he will never show the 100% love and care female is showing. but on other hand, its difficult to make a female to fall in love but once done she will never forget that love.

4.      Here is another situation. If you give a 50 pages book and say that answer for the exam’s question is there in the book so read and come. Next day Girl will exactly write the same content that was there in the book without understanding the content and there are some genius who may even remember the page numbers also. But, that is not the case with boy he will TRY to read for 5 to 10 pages that’s all. Next day morning he will listen to the story about what is there in the book and he will go and write in the exam.

5.      In Computer terms Male is a variable but female is a constant

You may be wondering why I am talking about male and female’s characteristics today. This indeed is a very important topic to realize for both male and female.
 I will give some of the most common problems that come between both.

1.      Remembering the important dates like birthdays, anniversaries and some special days. Male do remember it but in most of the cases they forget on that exact day. This is basically manufacturing defect but on the other end as I said girl’s always remember about their past, present and future so they do remember the exact date and even time.

2.      Normally during the initial stages of love both will be exhibiting more and more love by spending most of the time together. But as time passes the problem arises, as I said male will change female will be constant.  Female still expects the same love but on other hand male changes, this indeed doesn’t mean that male’s Love has faded but female need to realize that “Men are predator’s and they are not meant for LOVE”.

If female realise these facts then I hope there is no chance of any cracks in the bond and on the other hand male should realize the nature of female and show the love and care that they showed on initial stages.

Final words Male should try to become a constant and Female should try to become a variable.

That’s all for today meet you all next week with an interesting topic that will indeed make your love stronger.

Friends if you find that certain things that I have mentioned are wrong feel free to comment on that..
Bye.. Take Care..

Secret of Continous Happiness with Ur Loved Ones

Normally, people say that love fades after some time, like the love and care that was shown during the initial stages would be more compared to later part.Y is it so? did any one research on that.?

In my point of view "show the love & care to the person you are close BUT NEVER EXPECT the same from them" bcoz they may be of different nature.

Expectation always leads to a rupture in the relation. so never expect anything from anyone, else you might get depressed.

Normally most of the parents say that "Love marriage leads to divorce" secondly the latest trend in today's world is " The series and episodes of love in a single person's life ". Y?

The answer is same
During the initial stages both show their positive character but as the time progress you will be able to view  some of the negative character of the person. This is really an important stage in the relationship where both have to be equally flexible and try to understand that this is the originality of the person. I am sure, this would have happened at least once in a relationship and the people who are really flexible will continue the relationship, while others end in a "break-up".

My main objective of writing this is to understand if my thoughts are right or wrong.

So please leave your comment and also classify yourselves in which stage you are in
1. Initial stage           - Forecast is that you have to be more flexible and "Never expect anything from your partner".
2. Problematic stage - Good that you have come to this stage. "All the best"
3. Jolly stage            - Congrats, Everything is done and in your case my blog title will suit "Love will never fade in your relationship"


meet you all soon.. take care..

First day of my blog - Introduction

Small Introduction abt me and my family who showed me the path of LOVE..
I am from the Rocking city of Tamilnadu - Trichy.
My dad is Ex-service man and now he is in Railways.
My mom is r8 nw the architect and finance minister of my home.
Finally my guide, elder brother who is working as teacher in private school.